"Can't we have lunch instead?" is the response one daughter gave, when her mother brought up the conversation about end-of-life care. Recently, I brought up the topic at my relatives' house. Fortunately, I plunged ahead with the topic for at least 5 minutes, before someone said, "Can we talk about something more pleasant now?" It might be easier to talk about sex!!
Ellen Goodman, a writer for the Washington Post, co-founded The Conversation Project which provides a starter kit to help people get going on this conversation. They commissioned a survey, and found that 9 in 10 Americans think it is important to discuss end-of-life care wishes, but less than 3 in 10 have actually done so. Many people say it is too soon to talk about it, but it is "too soon until it is too late."
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